Thursday, September 13, 2018

Book Review - Saints: The Story of the Church of Jesus Christ in the Latter Days (Volume 1)


Earlier this year, I stumbled across the first several chapters of Saints in the Church History section of the My Gospel Library app. I listened to it on my phone, fell in love with the writing style, and finished it quickly.  I read and listened to those available chapters several more times and kept checking back to see if more chapters had been added. 

Imagine my happiness when I found out that this book was just part one of a four book series!

Elder Steven E. Snow wrote:

In 1861, President Brigham Young (1801–77) urged Church historians to change their approach. “Write in a narrative style,” he advised, and “write only about one tenth part as much.” (see Snow's introductory article about the book, Saints: The Story of the Church of Jesus Christ in the Latter Days.)

What wonderful advice from President Young so many years ago and I am glad the Church has taken the initiative to write Saints in a narrative style. It is historically accurate and has been meticulously researched in every detail but it reads more like a novel. One of my favorite genres is historical fiction and this book FEELS like historical fiction but it is NOT fiction which makes it even more fascinating and meaningful. 

One man, Steven C. Harper called Saints a "happy marriage between accurate history and narrative storytelling."  This style helps people feel like they are experiencing the early years of our church rather than sifting through tons of historical documents (which would be a tedious and boring task, no offense historians). If you listen to the story, most of the chapters are around 15-20 minutes long.  If you listen to just one chapter a day you can finish the entire book in 6 or 7 weeks.

The complete first volume of Saints was available as of September 4, 2018.  It contains 46 chapters and is available in many languages.

Here's how you can access the first volume of Saints:
1) Gospel Library app (free)
2) store.lds.org ($5.75 for a paperback)
3) Online at saints.lds.org (free)
4) Deseret Book ($5.75 for paperback)
5) Amazon (Kindle) (free)

As Church Historian, Steven C. Harper, said:

This story is not about perfect people; it is about fallen people who are trying to become saints through the Savior's Atonement by making and keeping covenants.



Bingo! I appreciate the honesty and transparency in Saints. Often times people question their faith when they learn about uncomfortable historical events or the imperfections of Church leaders.  For me, it is comforting to know that all people on earth struggle, fail, repent, succeed, learn, and grow. 

Our early Church leaders communicated with Heavenly Father through prayer and received revelation, and inspiration, sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. We can follow this same pattern today. 


In the talk Precious Gifts from God By President M. Russell Ballard, it reads:

We should not be surprised to know that those individuals called to do the Lord’s work are not humanly perfect. Stories in the scriptures detail incidents about men and women who were called of God to accomplish a great work—good sons and daughters of our Heavenly Father called to serve in their assignments in the Church, striving to do their best, but none of them yet perfect. The same is true of us today. Given the reality of our human weaknesses and shortcomings, how do we move forward in supporting and sustaining each other? It begins with faith--real, sincere faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. Faith in the Savior is the first principle of the doctrine and gospel of Christ.

Saints doesn't sugar coat the history of the early Church and the leaders and followers of that time. Were there things in the book that surprised me? Yes. Did they shake my faith. No. In fact, this book has strengthened my faith.

It would be harsh to judge people who lived hundreds of years ago based on our knowledge today. They saw things through a different lens than we do now just as my future grand-kids will see things from their own circumstances and perspectives. Saints allows us to glimpse what was happening in the world that our early Church leaders and members lived in.


I have also enjoyed listening to various episodes on the Saints podcast and also watching the Worldwide Devotional for Young Adults: A Face to Face Event with Elder Quentin L. Cook which was held in Nauvoo on 9/9/18. Both of these venues encourage discussion and thought about Church history and faith.

Many people worked on creating Saints. I heard that it took six years to finish it. You can tell that it was a magnificent joint effort between historians, creative writers, etc. I can't imagine the work that goes into researching, writing, translating, and publishing historical books like Saints. Of course this book was also read and approved by the First Presidency of the Church (which means it went through quite the approval process).

Based on the workload that was involved in creating the first volume, I have no idea when the next three volumes of Saints will be published. Hopefully they have already been working on it for a while. Out of curiosity, I searched online and found out what each volume will contain:

Volume 1 "The Standard of Truth" tells the story of the Restoration, from Joseph Smith’s childhood to the Saints receiving ordinances in the Nauvoo Temple in 1846. (AVAILABLE NOW)

Volume 2 "No Unhallowed Hand" will cover the Saints’ challenges in gathering to the western United States and will finish with the dedication of the Salt Lake Temple in 1893.

Volume 3 "Boldly, Nobly, and Independent" will narrate the global growth of the Church, ending with the dedication of the temple in Bern, Switzerland, in 1955.

Volume 4 "Sounded in Every Ear" will bring the reader to the recent past, when temples are located all over the world.

Saints need Saints (the book). In fact even if you're not a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints I encourage you to read it. If you need more convincing, here's a link to 6 Reasons Why You Should Read the New Church History Book, Saints.  

I hope you feel motivated to read Saints and that you enjoy it as much as I have. Feel free to leave comments about your experiences with this book.

Wednesday, June 20, 2018

Topiary Cuteness

I am a plant lover.... I have plants in my yard, on my porch, and in my house. They just make me happy.

Since I live in the desert, keeping plants alive and looking green can be a challenge.  I have to make sure not to under-water my plants so that they don't dry up.  I have to be careful of over-watering because the soggy soil causes roots to rot and little gnats and pests to appear. And when I go out of town, I literally have to talk one of my friends into coming over to take care of my living plants.


So when I find a nice looking artificial plant, I sigh with relief, knowing that the only maintenance it will require is to be occasionally dusted. I'm sure my plant-sitting friends also appreciate that I don't have to ask them for favors too. Plus I never have to worry about little bugs (eww).


Recently I was asked to provide a neutral review for http://www.museumtrees.com/.  Of course I jumped at the chance to get a free plant to review (and then get to keep it in my house!).  I chose to order the two pack of 18 inch topiary trees.


I did a little research while I waited for my plants to arrive. The website features small trees, large trees, indoor trees, and outdoor trees... plants and trees for homes, commercial buildings, corporate offices, hospitals, etc. The website offers ideas and inspiration for using Museum Trees' products.


Friday, June 1, 2018

Book Review - Upheld: Ordinary Women Discovering an Extraordinary God

If you want to feel uplifted and hopeful, I have the book for you....

Upheld: Ordinary Women Discovering an Extraordinary God




Grace Lane is a pen name. This book was actually written by five women with the common goal of sharing their experiences and hopefully uplifting others. One of the authors is my dear friend who I have known since elementary school. I witnessed her trials from an outsider's perspective. Reading this book helped me to learn how she truly felt and what she learned. I admire how she relied on the Lord and had such strong faith throughout her experiences. I can only hope I would have been that strong had I been in her place.


rebekahRebekah: 
Writing about motherhood and her husband’s health struggles, Rebekah lives true to the meaning of her name—to bind. Life’s experiences have shaped her into a wise, steadfast daughter of God who has the beautiful ability to make others laugh through her clever wit.
jeniJeni: 
Jeni’s stories revolve around the loving care of her son with special needs. Knowing that he will not live out his childhood, she’s armed with strength and determination to give him the best life possible. The bright hope Jeni finds through the Savior will encourage the lowest of hearts.
elizabethElizabeth:
Elizabeth is passionate about sharing the Light of Christ. You’ll feel this in reading about the challenges she faces with her spouse’s addiction and divorce. Through sophistication, uplifting words, and a touch of spunk, she’s a modern-day disciple “gathering in the fold” and feeding His sheep.
lanaiahFaith:
A woman of intuition, Faith has a distinctive gift for understanding people. Her personal goal in life is to help women recognize their potential in whatever role they fill. She writes about her battle in overcoming abuse as a child and her fight with low self-esteem.
dawnDawn:
A single mom for ten years, Dawn not only believes the motto “Light trumps darkness”, but she lives it every day. Her short stories are about finding God after a heart-crushing divorce. Dawn touches many lives through her unwavering testimony and simple ways.
upheldphotoI love that they use the grapefruit as a symbol for their common project and goals.  Of course grapefruits smell wonderful and are good for you but that wasn't the reason they were selected. Grapefruits don't grow alone. They grow together clustered on trees. This was symbolic to the Grace Lane Authors because it represents the power of women working together. Their challenges differ but they share the fact that they are women of God doing the best they can. I know I have drawn strength and encouragement from my tribe of women. By reading this book you will join their cluster.
They also have a Grace Lane Authors Blog that has wonderful posts.
Click HERE if you want to buy a copy of their book and/or sign up for their newsletter.  You'll be happy you did.

Tuesday, March 20, 2018

Book Review - "Hooked" by Deanna Browne


I am so excited to read Deanna Browne's new book, HOOKED (Book 1 of the Hardwired Trilogy). Today is the release date!

One of my favorite genres is Dystopian Fiction. Virtual Reality fascinates me (and also scares me at the same time) so I think HOOKED will be interesting since it centers on virtual reality and survival in a dystopian society.  Give me a good futuristic, dystopian thriller, a comfortable couch and a quiet evening at home and I'll be satisfied.  And maybe throw in a Diet Dr. Pepper and some kettle corn to munch on too.

Here is a little insight into her book HOOKED:

When virtual reality surpasses people’s wildest dreams, many struggle to remain in the real world. Sixteen-year-old Ari has watched the financial and emotional cost of virtual reality addiction for years as her father continues barely existing in a VR coma. Unfortunately, her only option to help her family escape poverty is if she studies the one subject she hates and fears: virtual reality programming.

Despite her misgivings, Ari soon develops a rare talent that makes her question everything. Now she must hide her ability or risk becoming a priceless commodity that governments and corporations will fight, steal or even kill to possess. As officials tighten the shackles surrounding Ari, she rebels against her imposed future and searches for a way to save those she loves. Yet, running proves impossible, when the government is always one click away.

Thursday, January 4, 2018

Effective Conversation Skills



What makes a good conversationalist?

We've all experienced awkward conversations. I just had one at a recent family event and that motivated me to write this post. Eight of us were seated at a luncheon and half the people at the table made the experience uncomfortable. One of the individuals actually fell asleep sitting up to avoid interaction (super awkward!).

I personally love conversing with others and have been comfortable talking to anyone and everyone since I was a toddler. But I recognize that conversations may feel torturous to different individuals.

Whether you are a natural conversationalist like me, or someone who would rather go hide in the bathroom than have to talk to people, here is some advice.

7 helpful hints:

FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS
Whether you are on the phone or conversing face to face, try your best to focus and concentrate on the conversation.  Treat the person like they are important and don't multi-task or think about something else. If you are busy or distracted, politely excuse yourself from the conversation until you can eliminate the distraction or complete the other task. No one likes to feel like the person they are talking to doesn't really care.

Monday, February 27, 2017

Book Review - At the Pulpit, 185 Years of Discourses by Latter-day Saint Women


At the Pulpit is a refreshing collection of women’s voices from the history of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  The book contains 54 speeches given by women from 1831 to current day and is an impressive collection that shows the strength of women in the church. After reading the words of these eloquent women, I felt empowered and grateful for their examples of courage, compassion, and faithfulness. 

Life can be very full and busy at times.  I worried that I wouldn't be able to find time to read and review this book at first.  But during quiet minutes, I found myself drawn to it to bring me peace. I loved the stories and I felt stronger and more motivated after reading it.  Sister Jacobs had it right in the infographic below.


In the first chapter, I was impressed with the leadership of Lucy Mack Smith (aka “Mother Smith,” mother of Joseph and Hyrum Smith). In 1831, Lucy Mack Smith was part of a group that was planning to travel to Kirtland, Ohio from Fayette, New York. Two prominent males in the group refused to lead the group during the journey and deferred to Mother Smith. She rallied the troops and handled the finances, food, lodging, and spiritual guidance. At one point, the group was stuck in Buffalo, waiting for the ice to break in the harbor. Another party there encouraged Smith and her group to hide their religious identity to avoid prejudice. Smith rejected the advice and instead “boldly proclaimed her Mormon beliefs” to the townspeople.


Eliza R. Snow’s speech to the Salt Lake City 17th Ward Relief Society really struck a chord with me in regards to how church callings should work.  She said, “Each member of the society should study to know her place, and honor herself by filling it honorably , and all move forward like machinery that is perfect in all its parts. Let no one overstep her mark or in the least crowd against another… And if this principle shall be carried out in every department, the society will move like clockwork.”  Her beautifully chosen words and appropriate similes describe how callings should be handled not only in just olden days but now as well. Each person is to learn and magnify her calling and not hinder others from fulfilling their responsibilities by enabling them or doing things that are outside their realm of stewardship.

Sunday, February 12, 2017

Choose to Reach



The theme for Primary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints this year is "Choose the Right."

I serve in the Stake Primary Presidency and we decided we would give the ward Primary Presidency members a little treat when we visit them for Ward Conferences.  We wanted to do a CTR theme but with a twist.  So we decided to create, "Choose to Reach" as a play on the CTR theme.

We've been encouraging our Primary leaders to reach out to each individual and to focus on "the one."  The one can be a child, teacher, etc.  We are also encouraging everyone to strive to prepare for, value, and attend the temple.  So this is what I created.

We attached a handout (printed on cardstock) to a chewy candy (get it, "CHEWS" to Reach?) and we'll pass them out over the next few months.

Feel free to use the graphic if you'd like.



Monday, January 2, 2017

Early Return LDS Missionary - The Importance of Waves

The Importance of Waves


After my son put his mission papers in and we were waiting for his mission call, I had a very spiritual and important dream.  In my dream, I saw the place where my son would serve his mission.  It was an island with a strong European influence.  It was so definite in my mind that I had absolutely no doubt he would be called to an island like that. The second important part of my dream was when I saw great giant waves in the ocean.  I had the feeling that these weren't literal waves but symbolic waves. At first I felt a sense of panic but then I had the strong and undeniable feeling that I should completely trust the Lord and turn everything over to Him.  Little did I know how important this dream would become to our family.

I know that Jesus Christ can calm all of our inward storms and He will help my son because He loves him and wants him to feel joy and grown and learn. My son ended up returning home from his mission earlier than expected. We are so proud of his desire to serve and all his hard work. A mission is a mission no matter how long you serve.

Here's an analogy that helps show how the Lord will help us through the stormy seas and help adversity be for our gain.

Tossed upon the Waves (click on title to read original article)

In the middle of my anxiety and despair, I reread the account of the Jaredites crossing the “great deep” (Ether 2:25). I can only imagine their anxious anticipation as they entered their barges. Their journey might be perilous, but they knew they were headed to “a land choice above all other lands” (Ether 2:15).

Of their journey, we read:

“The Lord God caused that there should be a furious wind blow upon the face of the waters, towards the promised land; and thus they were tossed upon the waves of the sea before the wind.

“And it came to pass that they were many times buried in the depths of the sea, because of the mountain waves which broke upon them, and also the great and terrible tempests which were caused by the fierceness of the wind.

“… When they were encompassed about by many waters they did cry unto the Lord, and he did bring them forth again upon the top of the waters.

“And it came to pass that the wind did never cease to blow towards the promised land while they were upon the waters; and thus they were driven forth before the wind” (Ether 6:5–8).

These verses became personal to me. I felt that I was in my own barge, with winds of anxiety beating upon me and waves of depression swelling over me and burying me in the depths of despair. When I was “encompassed about” and would cry unto the Lord, I would break through the surface but would then be buried once more.

I read verse 8 again: “The wind did never cease to blow towards the promised land … and thus they were driven forth before the wind” (emphasis added). Then it hit me. The very wind that caused the mountainous waves to bury the barges also blessed the Jaredites on their journey. I had been pleading with Heavenly Father to calm the wind and waves, but without them, I might not reach whatever “promised land” He was leading me to.

These verses changed my outlook on life. My anxiety and depression had increased my reliance on Heavenly Father. Without the wind and waves, I might never have come to know God as I have—and the Jaredites might never have reached the promised land.

For now, a few years after this experience, my winds of anxiety are no longer gusting and my waves of depression have ceased to bury me. But if and when the tempest returns, I will call upon the Lord and be thankful, knowing that calm seas don’t carry barges to the promised land—stormy seas do.

Early Return LDS Missionaries - Anxiety and Depression Resources

Many people don't understand depression and anxiety. I get it.  If you, or someone you love, haven't experienced it personally it is easy to misjudge and think someone can just overcome it with a positive attitude.

Signs of Depression
  • A persistent sad, helpless, hopeless, or worthless feeling.
  • Decreased energy and motivation, and increased fatigue.
  • A loss of interest in activities one used to enjoy.
  • Difficulty concentrating, remembering, or making decisions.
  • Appetite change and weight loss or gain.
  • Trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up.
  • Thoughts about death and suicide.
Here are some informative articles, videos, blog posts and podcasts that may help provide some understanding about depression, anxiety, and early returned missionaries.

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/like-a-broken-vessel?lang=eng&_r=1

https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2016-05-012-elder-hollands-counsel-for-early-returned-missionaries?lang=eng

http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865628809/6-lies-early-returned-missionaries-tell-themselves.html?pg=all

http://ldsmag.com/what-this-mission-president-would-like-every-early-returned-missionary-to-know/

https://typedlettershome.com/2016/10/06/a-letter-to-every-erm/

http://www.provomormondude.com/2015/09/dealing-with-depression-as-latter-day.html

https://www.lds.org/ensign/2016/02/depression?lang=eng

https://www.lds.org/new-era/2016/09/dealing-with-depression?lang=eng

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxK2E2OFJhQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZdr56g_efQ

https://www.lds.org/ensign/1984/02/my-battle-with-depression?lang=eng

https://www.mormon.org/blog/dealing-with-depression-and-mental-illness#d

https://www.mormonchannel.org/listen/series/mormon-channel-daily-audio/his-grace-being-an-early-returned-missionary

http://www.ldsliving.com/A-Video-About-Early-Returned-Missionaries-Every-Member-Needs-to-See-Understand/s/80052

Saturday, December 31, 2016

Games to Play in the Dark



Here are some fun games to play with teenagers that I found online.


Blair Witch Hide And Seek

What you Need:
Two mobile phones

How to Play:
Wait until it's dark and turn out the lights. One person hides with a cell phone. In the pitch black, everyone goes looking for this one person. Every so often he must call the other phone and give clues to where he is hiding. If you have one, get a night vision video camera to follow the guests, and watch the tape later.

Murder in the Dark

1. Get the number of cards of people in the game. EX: 7 people means 7 cards. In the cards, make sure to include the Jack and a King whilst the rest of the cards are number cards. Pass out the cards, but make sure no-one sees them. When you are done, everyone can secretly look at the cards. The person with the Jack is the murderer and the person with the king is the detective.

2. Make sure your'e in a house. Turn off all the lights. The object of the game is to not be murdered. If you're the murderer, the object is to murder other players. Everyone else is a victim/detective. 

3. To "Murder" someone, you have to sneak up behind them and tap on their shoulder, which means they are now dead. Then the "Victim" has to lay on the floor. However if you try and murder the detective, he will not die and will just ignore you!

4. If a player comes across a "Murdered" person, he must turn on the room light and yell "MURDER IN THE DARK!" Then everyone has to assemble in the room and the person who yelled has to guess the murderer. If the player guesses correctly, then the game is over. If he guesses incorrectly then you turn off all the lights again and all the murdered victims are brought back to life and the game continues.

5. The only time the murderer wins is when he/she murders every player, except for the detective.

Mannequin Hunter Game
Dark room
flashlight

How to play:
You need at least five people for this game and make sure you have plenty of room to play. The room must also be as dark as possible so draw the curtains and shut the door. All of the players go into the room except for one person who is named the hunter who must wait outside with the flashlight. The person outside the room must count to thirty whilst the other people will act like mannequins in a store and stand as still as possible and try not to laugh. 

The Hunter then enters the dark room and using the flashlight he must locate the players. Once he finds a player then he must try his best to make the mannequin move, talk or laugh. If they do then the mannequin is out of the game. 


Tuesday, December 13, 2016

Book Review - Bible Origami by Todd Huisken


Let me start by saying that this book makes me happy. I will explain.

Since my youth, I have struggled with spatial things. Things such as folding paper airplanes and answering those test questions that involve imagining how an unfolded patterned cube would look when folded back up. These things tend to frustrate me and make me feel helpless.






Fast forward to my adulthood. Todd Huisken (creator of Bible Origami) reached out to me to review his new origami book.  Todd was my dear friend during our freshman year of college but after we graduated we lost touch. We reconnected when he found my blog and asked me if I would give an honest review his book.

Author, Todd Huisken

Todd sent me a copy of his book, "Bible Origami," along with some paper so that I could try creating some of his designs. (I'd kept my spatial inadequacies hidden so he had no idea how challenging this would be for me.)


So I bravely sat down to try my hand at "Bible Origami."  I started with making Joseph's Coat of Many Colors. I followed the directions and illustrations exactly. Imagine my surprise and delight when I was able to do it! I literally screamed out, "LOOK WHAT I MADE!" (Sure, my family mocked me a bit for my over-enthusiasm but they were happy for me.)


Sunday, December 4, 2016

You're Turning 8 - Info for LDS Children

Here are some forms that we use in our stake to help children know what to expect when they turn 8.  Boys and girls get the first page.  Then the second page is gender specific. 



Thursday, December 1, 2016

Parenting, missionary work, obedience, everything, employment,

Six Levels of Motivation

1. Force
2. Fear
3. Consequence
4. Duty
5. Faith
6. Love


Saturday, August 20, 2016

Stake Activity Day - "There's No Place Like Home"

I am currently serving as the secretary in our Stake Primary Presidency.  I loved this recent Stake Activity Day event! Feel free to copy anything you'd like from the activity. 

We had a committee of around 20 people working on it and it was incredible.  Everyone magnified their responsibilities and I have to say it turned out to be quite a memorable event for the girls.

This was our poster (I took our stake name off to make it generic).

Our invitation. We printed them as 4x6 pics at Costco.
We based the theme around the Wizard of Oz but adjusted it to fit our desired goal.  Our theme was "There's No Place Like Home with Our Father in Heaven and our Savior Jesus Christ."  Our focus was trying to prepare the girls to attend the temple someday and then eventually return to live with Heavenly Father.