Feeling loved is a primary emotional need for all humans. There are countless poems, letters, stories, books, and songs written about love.
Here's one song that kept running through my mind as I contemplated writing this post -
Everybody. The chorus repeats, "Everybody, everybody wants to love, everybody, everybody wants to be loved." So, so true.
In Dr. Gary Chapman's book, "The 5 Love Languages," it says, "Child psychologists affirm that every child has certain basic emotional needs that must be met if he is to be emotionally stable. Among those emotional needs, none is more basic that the need for love and affection, the need to sense that he or she belongs and is wanted. With an adequate supply of affection, the child will likely develop into a responsible adult. Without that love, he or she will be emotionally and socially challenged." (You can listen to this book on YouTube).
Dr. Chapman shares a wonderful metaphor to illustrate the importance of feeling loved. He heard this metaphor from Dr. Ross Campbell who is a psychiatrist who specialized in the treatment of children and adolescents.
Showing posts with label Love Languages. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love Languages. Show all posts
Friday, March 20, 2015
Wednesday, March 18, 2015
The 5 Love Languages - Ideas for Couples
Click HERE to read my original post about The 5 Love Languages.
5 LOVE LANGUAGES FOR COUPLES
Need some ideas on how to speak your spouse's love language? Here are some from Dr. Chapman's book:
5 LOVE LANGUAGES FOR COUPLES
Need some ideas on how to speak your spouse's love language? Here are some from Dr. Chapman's book:
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The 5 Love Languages of Children
Click HERE to read my original post about The 5 Love Languages.
The 5 Love Languages aren't just for couples - They apply to everyone you interact with. As a mom of three boys, I found this information very helpful in my parenting since I spend so much of my life focusing on my children (and my spouse). We all know that each child is unique and that they each need different things from us. After learning about the Love Languages, I feel that my parenting skills have improved. (Too bad I didn't read it 19 years ago!)
Here are descriptions of The 5 Love Languages in regards to children:
The 5 Love Languages aren't just for couples - They apply to everyone you interact with. As a mom of three boys, I found this information very helpful in my parenting since I spend so much of my life focusing on my children (and my spouse). We all know that each child is unique and that they each need different things from us. After learning about the Love Languages, I feel that my parenting skills have improved. (Too bad I didn't read it 19 years ago!)
Here are descriptions of The 5 Love Languages in regards to children:
Labels:
challenges,
children,
education,
gift,
love,
Love Languages,
parenting,
service,
time management
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